You can't change yourself, so don't even try. I know that's not what the infomercials and self help programs tell you but they're wrong. Literally everything that we're presented with is presented in such a way that it's going to fix something, it's going to make us feel better, less miserable, that we're important, our dreams and desires deserve to be achieved.&nbsp;I don't think any of these things are necessarily true. Nor should they be. It's really important, because when people get caught up into this, they start feeling as though they deserve all of these things they're hearing all the time, without actually putting in the work or going through the pain and struggle that is necessary. The self help individual may experience the feeling of growth and transcendence. But just because you feel like you move forward doesn't mean you actually did.While other self help books encourages you to create ambitious goals, follow your dreams, to reach for the Stars, all the motivational crap. The counterbalance approach in this book reminds you that your dreams are probably narcissistic delusions and you should probably just shut up and get to work on something meaningful.From this book you will learn that,Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional.Everything you believe will one day fail you. That is how you grow.Everything you love, will one day be lost. That is what makes life meaningful.&nbsp;This is a self help book like no other.

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