A wondrously unusual memoir about a woman who, in the midst of mourning her divorce, retreats into her shell and renegotiates her relationship to solitude, shame, and connection–from an acclaimed 5 Under 35 National Book Foundation honoree.”We’ve all heard the one about waking up as a cockroach–but what if a crisis turned you into a clam?”After the dissolution of her marriage, a writer is transformed into a and “clam and ” via typo after her mother keeps texting her to and “clam down. and ” The funny if unhelpful command forces her to ask what it means to and “clam down and ” during crises–to retreat, hide, close up, and stay silent. Idiomatically, we are said to and “clam up and ” when we can’t speak, and to and “come out of our shell and ” when we reemerge, transformed.In order to understand her path, the clam digs into examples of others who have also and “succumbed to shellfish and ” to embrace lives of reclusiveness and extremity. But this is a story that radiates outward from the kernel of selfhood to family, society, and ecosystem. Finally, the writer must confront her own and “clam genealogy and ” to interview her dad who disappeared for a decade to write a mysterious accounting software called Shell Computing. In learning about his past to better understand his decisions, she learns not only how to forgive him, but also how to move on from her own wounds of abandonment and insecurity.Using a genre-defying structure and written in novelistic prose that draws from art, literature, and natural history, she unfolds a complex story of interspecies connectedness, in which humans learn lessons of adaptation and survival from their mollusk kin. While it makes sense in certain situations to retreat behind fortified walls, the choice to do so also exacts a price. What is the price of building up walls? How can one take them back down when they are no longer necessary?

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