If you’re single and searching, there’s no end to other people’s 
explanations, excuses, and criticism explaining why you haven’t found a 
partner: “You’re too picky. Just find a good-enough guy and you’ll be fine.” “You’re too desperate. If men think you need them, they’ll run scared.” “You’re too independent. Smart, ambitious women always have a harder time finding mates.” “You have low self-esteem. You can’t love someone else until you’ve learned to love yourself.” “You’re too needy. You can’t be happy in a relationship until you’ve learned to be happy on your own.” Based on one of the most popular Modern Love columns of the last decade, Sara Eckel’s It’s Not You challenges
 these myths, encouraging singletons to stop picking apart their 
personalities and to start tapping into their own wisdom about who and 
what is right for them. Supported by the latest psychological and 
sociological research, as well as interviews with people who have 
experienced longtime singledom, Eckel creates a strong and empowering 
argument to understand and accept that there’s no one reason why you’re 
single—you just are.

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